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Man's Number One Role in a Relationship
« on: April 17, 2007, 07:23:59 AM »
As a husband you’re not called to love all women, but one. You’re not sanctioned to master all other females, but your wife. It is important that you understand the various aspects of your wife.

There are certain things and qualities that are common to all women. These include intuitive power, ability to bear under pressure and the capacity to care. But your woman will be different; she’ll have her own personality, values and background. Within these parameters, seek to understand her.

Most importantly, women are good at receiving love. One thing a woman understands unequivocally is whether you love her or not. Women expect love from their husbands. They expect you to assert your love on a frequent basis.

Because men bank on reasonability they sometimes forget to reaffirm their love to their partners. A man thinks because he told her last month that he loved her, she knows he does. That's wrong. Women tend not to depend on yesterday’s affirmation; they want new confirmations all the time.

Moreover, a woman expects you to show that you love her unreservedly. When you remember her birthday or send her a gift, she’s appeased. She also wants you to appraise her – such as when she dresses or organizes her hair.

Men sometimes wonder why some women don’t look attractive to them any more. They complain that before they married the woman, she was always looking great. But what they forget is that she was presenting herself because she was being appraised or because she wanted to be noticed. It is imperative, therefore, that husbands get into the habit of praising and complimenting their wives.

Men, until you love your wife, we have no idea whether you love your body. One thing that a person will never hate is one’s body. No one ever hated his or her own body on purpose. To the extent to which you love your body, to that extent love your wife.

We protect, care for and treasure our bodies. We keep them in good health and choose what to put on them. So ought a husband to love his own wife, like his own body. A wife is not a sex toy or object. She’s a person with feelings that need to be fulfilled. She has ideas that need to be respected. When women are only seen as sex objects, abuse is likely.

A husband's first assignment is to love his wife. A wife needs to be loved throughout life. There is no conflict; children come as a blessing from God. But before children there was a wife.

This is the same woman you will remain with after the children are gone. What a joy that there is one woman you’re responsible for loving the rest of your life! This is very possible; all that it requires is a little bit of creativity.

Some people have argued the intelligence of loving the same woman year in and year out. Love grows with time. The more years you spend with the same woman the more beautiful she becomes and the more attached to her you get.

When it comes to loving your wife, hard work is demanded of you. You cannot be lazy in this matter. Each husband is called to love his wife for life! It goes without saying that love for your wife ought to be growing each and everyday.

He that nourishes and him that cherishes her, are both right.
How right this is to marriage! Marriage is defined marry-age, a responsibility endowed to human beings to live life productively. There is no other way man will show greater responsibility than in a marriage setting.

It is true a man can rule over other souls, command the trust of troops and drive industrial fulcrums to productive pinnacles. But man will be judge truly responsible by his prowess in marriage affairs.

Guys, love those dolls and cherish them. What you love appreciates, what you despise depreciates!
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